While in a marital relationship, couples are often bombarded with pressures of all kinds from every direction. Life is hard, and many people believe it is even more challenging in marriage. This is not to say that you cannot steer clear of immorality or cheating, but we all have fantasies, and no one wants to feel caged. This is why many couples who wish to have different sex life experiences resort to the swinging lifestyle. This way, they can spread their wings without having to break the “monogamous” relationship.
Also known as wife-swapping, swinging has gained tremendous popularity over the years. More and more couples are meeting up for leisure and bedroom activities these days, some of them hooking up via the internet. Many of them live happy and fulfilling lives as long as they play by the rules and be open to their partners. As if enough hasn’t been said, here are some things you may want to know about swinging.
Not Everyone May Be Comfortable With It
When you are considering the swinging lifestyle, your wife or husband may not respond well to the idea of sharing or being shared. That is the hard fact many couples have to battle with before they can mutually agree to it. The folks at cuckin recently published a guide that men can use to get their wives to cuckold them. It may not be an easy feat, but with some guidance, pretty much anyone can successfully convince their partner to try a new sexual fantasy together.
It Can Better Communication in a Relationship
Let’s face it once and for all that sometimes we tend to do things behind your favorite human. To satisfy some lust you had for a woman or a man you met at the club or that colleague you have always had a crush on. On this other side of life, things are different! Your partner knows about your whereabouts, and they are much okay with you having sex with some else. Funny, right?
Imagine this kind of transparency. Interestingly, there are fewer insecurities and infidelity, only more fun, trust, and freedom. These kinds of relationships need a healthy and hearty conversation so that you and your partner can stay healthy as you engage with other partners. You and your partner can come up with rules depending on what you mutually decide. It sounds funny, but swinging is healthy!
It May Enhance Respect
Swinging is a culture that most people mistake for prostitution. Sometimes it is even considered unethical. However, we only live once. We have no time for shady relationships and boring sex lives. At the same time, exploration is right in front of our faces! It sounds awkward to talk about respect when you are having sex with someone else, and you have a partner to satisfy your conjugal needs.
Well, here is the thing. Swings mostly occur in parties where you and your partner have to walk out together just how you walked in. If you are the ‘holier than thou’ kind of reader, read on because you have something to learn and maybe think about by the end of this read. In this game, your main squeeze is your topmost priority regardless. Remember, there are rules you both set, and respecting the rules is respect itself.
It Can Improve Your Sex Life
Sex is a topic that has started gaining acceptance, and everybody talks about it at a very neutral and comfortable level. Having open relationships is fun-filled, and you get sexual satisfaction from more than one person. If you are keen enough, swingers are in better relationships than those tied to one partner.
The swaps are an adventure, and the sex is of different levels when experiencing other partners. You have something new to learn and teach your partner from one of your sexual encounters. Isn’t that fun? Imagine the liveliness in your bedroom when you finally try out something new. Let us be honest and say that we need to experience this side of life. The same partner, for better or worse, leads to the worst bedroom life ever!
By now, you should be open-minded about having sexual escapades in your relationship. Come on. The above information is enough to ignite a conversation with your partner about trying out this lifestyle. Having a partner you can talk to and do anything with is everybody’s dream. It seems counterintuitive, but it is evident that swinging makes you more intimate. Relationships tend to get boring after some years of staying together because everything becomes a pattern.
Having to share life with someone who does not judge you is incredible. It improves everything in the relationship, and the bonds toughen by day. Nobody would want to lose someone who understands them to the extent of letting them swing and still have their back.
With the different types of swings, there is something for everyone! None is an exception. We all need to spice up our bedroom lives every time the sun rises and sets. Try talking to your partner about this, and you may end up taking your sex life to a whole new level.